Nowadays, the majority of OB-Gyns in training are female (last stats I saw were 75% female). It's the way of the future. Many women feel (rightly or wrongly) that a woman would understand better.
Guess what! Female OBs are harder asses than the men! We've been there. Many of us were pregnant in residency. So we don't put up with the victim act. We waddled around at 38 weeks, working 15 hour days, helping to move patients to the stretcher. So quit your bitching, because we *DO* know what it is like...and it is possible to do it.